Monday, May 29, 2023

Memorial Day 2023

 Remembering the Unsung Heroes

Long Sad Line of the Fallen

Another Memorial Day has arrived and with it our annual visit to a cemetery. It is a small but important rite as we honor those who died while in service to their country. As a retired veteran myself – and pleased to still be on this side of the grass - I naturally have a certain affinity for honoring all my fellow vets who have, as the old song said of a soldier’s passing, 'just faded away' before me.

While this day is dedicated to vets who sacrificed their lives in combat, and properly so, of the millions of military personnel who have served over the years this is a relatively small (thankfully) but sacred cohort. Something that most civilians aren't aware of though is the large number of vet’s who never make it to combat before dying. I’m not talking about the tragic losses due to suicide, murder or car accidents that all societies endure. I am referring to those who died in training for war.

Familiar to most of my pilot friends, the reliable T37 trainer



The noble T-29, Navigator training workhorse circa 1970








When most people think of training they probably think of sports or technical college or on the job training. While there certainly is some risk to some types of training, how often do they cost lives? In WWII fully 1/3 of all the deaths for just my military branch, the air force (then the Army Air Corp) occurred during training. Over 52,000 airmen died in combat WWII which is staggering enough but in addition, nearly 26,000 in total died in training. Very dangerous training indeed.

WWII B-24 bomber nicknamed "flying coffin." More trainees killed in this one aircraft then in any other - mostly in the US

At the height of the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan, 2006, about a third of all military deaths (which were primarily ground forces) were caused by training accidents. Even in the mostly post-war year 2021 this rate held true. Of the 1000+ military deaths that year over 300 were due to accidents.

Of course, training is much safer today but it still takes the lives of a significant number of our troops in all branches of service. Between 2013 and 2020, 224 aircrew members died during training, (all branches) and186 aircraft were destroyed at a cost of $11.6 Billion. Not counted here are the numerous deaths by non-aviation naval and ground forces killed in training every year. For example, just in the last few months, in addition to the 3 army helicopter training accidents which killed 14 soldiers, two army troops were killed and four marines were severely injured in separate training accidents 

There this is also this ironic fact: when not in actual combat, troops spend much of the rest of their time in training for combat; never-ending training, never-ending risk. We can expect many more accidents in the coming years. In order to save the lives of military members, training must be realistic - and sometimes dangerous.

Army Blackhawk helicopter

Separate, but related, it is easy to forget that at one time a large percentage of adults, especially male, served in the military. As recently as 1970 (slightly before the draft ended) about 14% of the US population were veterans. Today it is half as much, about 7%. This reduced participation in the military is also reflected in our government representatives - who are responsible for sending our troops into harm’s way. Logically, and unfortunately, there is much less familiarity with the military and military life.

I write not to impugn military training – I was a beneficiary of it in three different conflicts. Nor to criticize the civilian population or our government representatives; they just reflect America as it is today. I simply offer this as a reminder that there is much more to the sacrifice of military service than we see on television – or on Memorial Day. Even in times of “peace,” a rare occurrence for our country, going into the military - no matter when, which branch of service or type of duty - is not the same as a civilian job. Not in pay, not in lifestyle and not in risk. Hopefully you will consider that during your Memorial Day celebrations.

     "The best form of welfare for the troops is first-rate training."

         Erwin Rommel, Famous German General

It would be a wonderful thing if we didn't have wars, if we didn't need people trained for war and we didn't need to worry about losing our children to war. (That's apparently what we have schools for now.)

  "I hate war as only a soldier who has lived it can, only as one who                 has seen its brutality, its futility, its stupidity."

     Dwight D. Eisenhower, General of the Army and last good RINO President                                 (and almost every combat vet who lived to tell their story)


In closing, thoughts on "Taps." I have posted this on several past Memorial Days because I have never  been able to find a better expression of my feelings for this important day. To those of you who have read it before and grow weary, I apologize. To others, perhaps it will strike a chord.

        

   " War is young men dying and old men talking."

         Franklin Roosevelt


I can’t listen to taps and not tear up. Sometimes I’m not sure why I’m crying. Is it because of the magnificent mournful sound that so perfectly matches the feeling of saying farewell to a warrior? Or am I crying for all the loved ones left behind — the millions over many years? Sometimes I think I’m crying for something else; maybe I’m crying for myself.

Ultimately, I think I’m crying because taps reminds me that the world never seems to change for the better. No matter how many heroes pay the ultimate price, war always demands more. And it is always our young whom it craves.

Maybe I’m sad that someone somewhere will always be able to make complete strangers kill each other for the same reasons over and over, like an eternal World War I trench battle that rages over the same, small piece of ground in perpetuity. Each generation, like some militant Sisyphus, pushes the rock of war up the hill only to have it roll back on the next. No matter how just, proud, or righteous that rock appears, it remains a monument to belligerent humanity’s worst instincts.

I spent 28 years in the military, and my son has also served honorably. Someday taps will sound for each of us. And for that I am proud.

But knowing that melancholy song will need to be played for endless future generations will always make me cry. And for that I am not ashamed.


Although that time when there will no longer be wars is apparently still far in the future, perhaps celebrating Memorial Day can provide us with some hope that it will come to pass. 

I wish you a thoughtful and hopeful day.

Some appropriate music . . .

Arlington   Trace Atkins

If You're Reading This   Tim McGraw

Unknown Soldier   The Doors

Monday, May 1, 2023

A View Askew of Optimism . . .

 

. . . from Different Angles



Lots of opinions, asides - and maybe something positive?

First Angle

When last I left you I was a bit down in the mouth. In fact, I was kinda down all over. While generally an optimist, it’s easy for any of us to drift off course given the amount of sludge that we must slog through in our modern, everyday life. Ergo I wanted to post something positive today. I guess we’ll see if I succeed.

Several years ago, I was curious about optimism and its dark twin, pessimism, so I did some research. Apparently like being left or right-handed, we are predisposed to one or the other. Lots of studies back up the common wisdom, however, that having a positive or optimistic outlook leads generally to a happier life (which seems pretty unfair to pessimistic folks.) So what’s up with evolution, why is optimism favored over pessimism?

Well, I’m guessing if that weren't true then the world would probably be very sparsely populated due to pessimists heaving themselves off bridges and cliffs. Humans need at least some optimism to persist given the reality of our lives (mortality mayhaps?) That's probably also why we embrace every possible religion, some 4,000 at last count.  (And that's okay, whatever gets you through the night.)

And persist we pesky humans do! I mean even people who are pessimistic about other people or things are usually optimistic about their own life. (Although for some, often with zero practical reason e.g people in Mississippi or Alabama and several other places I can think of.) 

While I believe that optimism is kind of the default setting for most of us, studies also show that there's an important place for pessimism too. You know, some pessimism was pretty important for cavemen living with sabretooth tigers. And today it's really the only way for us to deal with the 2nd amendment - and Florida. 

Optimism/pessimism are kind of a yin and yang thing. (Ah, those wily Chinese.)

Anyway, there is almost always something that naturally swings us back to the positive side. It can be as simple as a nice article, a memorable tune or just the passing of time. (Time heals all wounds? Time wounds all heels? Something like that.) 

 Second Angle

I have been meditating on and off for several years. Every few months I go back through one of my Deepak Chopra 3-week programs and right now I'm on again. Yeah, I know there is a lot of hooey associated with his ideas but that’s true of many things we believe in. Even though I’m not very good at it, it still seems to work pretty well to clear my very cluttered mind. Sometimes I even get a little attitude adjustment out of it.

His programs are sort of based in a Buddhist-type philosophy. I'm no expert and I know I'm doing a great disservice to the elegant philosophy behind it but here’s what I get out of it. The reality of life is that it is full of pain and suffering and the first step is to just recognize and accept that. Then, stay in the present and focus on improving your life and inner peace. How hard can that be? Pretty damn hard. First, our egos distort reality and make everything about us as individuals - about our greed, selfishness, anger. Then, we tend to get wrapped up in what happened in the past and worrying about the future. (Doing precisely the opposite of what Mrs Dear Leader always tells me, “Don’t borrow trouble, DL!") And that, in turn, gets us all spooled up (technical term for agitated - and pessimistic.) Of course that makes it hard to be a better – positive - person which should be the point of life in the first place, right? 

As I said, I'm not very good at it - but I am persistent. 

On a positive note, I don't fall asleep while meditating anymore.

Speaking of The Buddha . . .

I have special affection for the chubby little guy

A Buddha pendant given to me by a very good Thai friend 50 Years Ago. She felt it would protect me and I guess it's worked so far.

(Or maybe not. Otto von Bismarck - the dude who founded modern Germany - once said, "There is providence that protects idiots, drunks, children. and the United States of America." OMG, I check a lot of those boxes!) 


Third Angle

Separate but related, one of my neighbors, who is considerably younger than I, (along with most everyone else on the block) has been studying stoicism, a very old Greek philosophy. Stoics seem to have come to sort of the same conclusion about life as the Buddha (hmmm.) They say, life is hard and unfair so just accept that. Then instead of seeking more material things to sooth our pain in life, just strive to live a simple life of "virtue" i.e. work on being a better person - which is, again, harder than you think. 

I mention this because, 1) I wanted to mention my neighbor and, 2) this is another philosophy - of many - about facing or explaining the human condition. It seems to me that it's a lot easier to be an optimist when you are at peace with life and yourself. 

(Did I mention that many adult beverages contributed to the brilliance of these conversations?)

2500 years later, Maslow's Hierarchy

Fourth Angle

As an aside, I bring up the relative youth of my neighbor (huh, see?!) because it has been my experience that it isn’t until people are “older” that they have the time and/or inclination to explore these "great questions of life." It would explain why most of us - yours truly included - are really clueless about so much until later in life - if ever. 

Now, as an aside to my aside, Sahil Bloom, who I have quoted before, has an interesting take on both optimism and aging.

"The Transition from infinite optimism to finite realism is an important one.

When you're young, you feel like your time and energy are infinite. You have so many years ahead of you, and with your 20's energy, you can fill those years with endless hustle and fervor.

When you get a bit older (read:30+), you realize that your time and energy are finite, and slowly dwindling. You hopefully do have many years ahead of you, but your energy is limited . . ."

You know, between making a living, raising kids and paying bills there isn’t much incentive or time for thinking about self-empowerment, living a life of virtue - or infinite optimism. I think "finite realism" is a nice way to describe optimism as we get older. (My neighbor seems to be ahead of the curve.)

Fifth Angle

Okay, sorry. To get back on track, speaking of a news story or article to get out of a funk . . .

More old Chinese wisdom:

“When the student is ready the teacher will appear.” Tao Te Ching

In my case, to paraphrase: when you need a boost, the message will appear.

A few years ago, I started contributing to the National Parks Conservation Association (NPCA – I highly recommend it.) So I get a quarterly magazine from them and as you might guess they have interesting articles and beautiful pictures.

In this quarter’s edition, aside from the usual beautiful pictures and articles about various parks, there was one about Yellowstone. Specifically, it was about the reunion of a group of folks who worked as kids at Yellowstone for several summers starting 50 years ago. 

Ah, to be young, beautiful and spending the summer at Yellowstone Park - cleaning rooms

Now in their 70’s – like certain people I know – they still keep in touch. Their love of that beautiful place hasn’t flagged in all these years nor that for each other. 

                                                    50 years go by fast . . . 








Having been in a bit of a reminiscing mood lately myself about friends and events, their stories and the then/now pictures of the group just struck a chord with me. That, plus the spectacular views of one the most beautiful places in the world just kind of restored my hope that there is a point to keep fighting the good fight. Some of that finite realism? Perhaps sometimes that's all it takes.

(Apropos of Nothing - Obtuse Angles)

I'll vouch for it, 50 years do go by fast!

Nice Shorts

No, these are not 3 models in a hillbilly beachwear fashion shoot. These are 3 AF officers enduring a grueling mission to So. America in the early 70's. 

My God, can you imagine entrusting the defense of free world to boobs like them? Talk about infinite optimism! 

Although who knew the cretin in the middle would end up the suave, sophisticated - and well-dressed - man of the world that Dear Leader has become today? (Optimism at work.)

Last Angle

Okay, finally (I hear you say, oh thank you!) I leave you with guys who actually knew stuff about life and optimism. 

"Man is not worried by real problems so much as by his imagined anxieties about real problems. 

Epictetus, Stoic Philosopher, circa 135AD


And that Chinese saying has second part that is seldom heard:

“When the student is truly ready the teacher will disappear.”

I suspect I have a lot of work to do before the teacher will be able to leave - but I have finite realism that it will happen.

I hope you found something at least vaguely positive here, my friends. Happy spring again (this time I really mean it - I hope.)

D Roger P


Music to restore Optimism - I defy you to listen this and not at least tap your feet. . .

Walking on Sunshine Katrina and the Waves


. . . Or to be bummed listening to this.




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